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How to Tell If a Guy Wants To Kiss You

“You want to kiss me, don’t you?”, she said. This was the first time I have ever heard a girl say this to me. Was she a mind reader, or was my intentions that transparent?

I hoped it was the latter otherwise if she was a mind reader, i was in trouble. I asked her how was she able to tell and for the rest of the date we talked about the male female dynamic.

How she was able to tell if a guy liked her through text. What signs do guys give off during dates that let her know hes into her and even when he wanted to kiss her.

It was a interesting conversation and though her and I didn’t kiss that night I did get insight into the female mind and how some girls can tell when a guys wants to kiss her.


If a guy is getting touchy feely with you its a definite sign he is interested and is trying to physically escalate with you meaning that his attempt to kiss you won’t be long from then.


Each person has a personal space bubble. Depending on who we are with and how we feel about them.

That personal bubble can be so large that we need to a full room of space to feel comfortable or so small that is is non existent.

When a guy is getting closer to you so close that he is letting you into his personal bubble, it shows that he has a large level of comfort with you, and he is attempting to get closer to you and your lips.


The wrong kind of silence can be awkward but perfect timed pauses mid conversation can be used to build up tension or give him time to build up the courage to try to go for the kiss.

If you see him frequently stopping mid conversation, this is him signalling that he is preparing himself to take it to the next step.


I am not referring to the typical stare in which a guy gazes deeply into your eyes and into your soul.

I am talking about the stare that signals a guy wants to kiss you. When his eye continuously drifts towards your lips, showing he is thinking about your lips and when  should he make his move.

These were the main points she made when telling me about knowing when a guy was preparing to kiss her and looking back at our date and also past dates I had, the points she made were spot on.

Its amazing how easy we guys are to read to for women.