There is a fascinating observation that girls in general get attracted to males sociopaths who are referred to variously as “Don Juans” or “Bad Boys” in society. On the surface, women will quickly point out that such males are caring, but scientists have revealed that these self-obsessed individuals are infact, scheming and lying.
Generally, they exploit people for self-stimulation or to enhance their self-esteem, and they will always esteem people for the motive of gaining money or property. However, surprisingly, they have a way with women which seem inexplicable.
Nature of Sociopaths
Research shows that male sociopaths (sexual or otherwise) have fascinating attributes which, unfortunately, make them a distressing problem in society. Their overindulgence with the “self” detaches them from reality and those around them. It is also a fact that sociopaths do not get attached to people, but somehow they get the attention of beautiful women.
In addition, male sociopaths also have an unusual advantage over their colleagues who seem to be limited by their feelings and conscience. Although they need relationships, they consider people as a hindrance to their objectives.
Male Sociopaths and Relationships
Male sociopaths have been a mystery in our society. What intrigues us about their personality is how they charm women. It is almost a convention for researchers to make reference to their seductive, personable, or charming nature.
Their triple traits of thrill, cunningness, and narcissism give them the impetus to engage in multiple sexual affairs with women without feeling guilt.
Attributes that Make Sociopaths Appear Attractive to Women
Male sociopaths are successful with women because they readily know how to charm and attract women as if they are the masters of psychology of attraction. Indeed, they appear open and friendly to women from the start which makes them likable.
They can make a few compliments which can make a lady feel pretty good. They will also appear appropriate and stylish to women – always smartly dressed and organized in appearance or presentation.
The typical sociopath has a character trait that so many men lack, CONFIDENCE. Nearly every male in the world that suffers from their own psychological problems related to never being able to find a female to care for them.
It is that very strong sense of self-confidence that makes it so easy for the sociopathic male to meet and pick up women seemingly at will. They harbour none of the emotions or characteristics that hold other men back from attracting women their way.
The sociopath isn’t at all shy or embarrassed by being around a woman, or even large groups of females. In fact, they are quite engaging and charismatic.
The male psychopath has the power to convince women that they are indeed worthy of their attention.
They are never hysterical, and because of their self-confidence, they remain calm and professional even in the most unnerving situations. While some of them are cognizant of this unusual aspect of their personality, a good number of them make good use of their influence to exploit women who are flattered by their outstanding charm and intelligence.
In most cases, these men are highly voluble, and they use their high verbal intelligence to their advantage. They are also well-spoken and articulate in their conversation. They will use high sounding vocabulary to make themselves appear highly educated to the women they are targeting or relating to from time to time. Unknown to many, they may also appear to be all-knowing which certainly makes those around them inferior.
Majority of the researchers concur that male sociopaths are charming and intelligent, but on the dark side, they are great frustrations and puzzles to those they around them. They can easily warm their way into women’s hearts because of their confidence and verbal intelligence in social interactions.
In fact, most of them present themselves appropriately and confidently, something which seems unattainable to ordinary individuals who have to learn to be assertive. The bottom line is that they are egocentric and will use people to their benefit without raising suspicion on the motives of their actions.