Have you ever heard the phrase, “the eyes are the windows into the soul?” Not only are they windows, they are also signs for whether or not someone is attracted to you! By knowing what to look for you will be able to tell if someone is attracted to you.
This can be a lot of fun to look for when out on a date, out with friends or just talking to someone randomly. While this might not lead you to the love of your life, it could help out a lot while out on dates.
What to look for in the eyes?
Dilated pupils are one of the biggest signs of someone being attracted to you. In fact, these are one of the top six things that you can easily see when it comes to body language! You don’t have to be a mind reader to find out whether or not someone is attracted to you, which is pretty great if you tend to get confused when it comes to dating.
So, the next time you are looking at someone and want to know if they are attracted to you, look into their eyes and check those pupils! If they are large, then chances are they are attracted to you. This could either be a result of something you said, how you look or something you did.
How dilated pupils work when it comes to attraction.
This is actually an automatic response that the body generates. Nobody has any control over this, it will just happen! This doesn’t mean you will just end up with dilated eyes all day or night long, it only happens for a few seconds.
The eyes will dilate at the exact moment when attraction reaches its peak. After a few seconds have passed, the eyes will go back to normal once again. This can also happen if you or the other person is sexually aroused, so watch out for that as well!
What to consider when looking for dilated pupils.
Although it’s really unique that you can see dilated pupils to determine attraction, keep a few things in mind. First, the lighting of the room could be difficult to see in. This could easily change the way the eyes look and cause you to think someone is attracted to you when really they aren’t.
Dim rooms can make it difficult to even see the eyes, so it can be hard to tell in some places. Next, also keep in mind that alcohol can affect the way the eyes dilate. If you’re at a bar or drinking wine with dinner, the pupils could be dilating because of the drinks!
Just because you cannot see the pupils dilate doesn’t mean someone isn’t attracted to you. They very well could be; which is why it’s important to look for the other signs of attraction. There are a lot of different body language signs that can help you determine if someone is interested in you.
Before you give up on a person you’re not sure about, look for these things!