Are you shorter than the woman you are trying to attract? Are you taller than her? What does that woman really think about your height? You may be surprised that your height, while somewhat important in the beginning, can end up being something she doesn’t even notice in the long run.
Your Height Will Affect Her Decision About You
When you approach a woman she is instantly going to feel attracted towards you or not attracted towards you.
She will take into account many things, including your height. If you are too tall or too short, then she may be turned off by your height and decide that you are not her type. She may also be turned on by it and decide that you are her type.
Most women like a man who is taller than them, but not too tall. All women, regardless of how strong or independent they are, like a man who can take care of them and protect them. A tall man can initially represent strength and protection to a woman.
A man who is too short does not represent weakness, but he does not offer the instant feeling of protection that a tall man offers. It’s human instinct to make judgements on someone regarding their size, but it’s also human nature to change your judgements once you get to know the person behind the size.
Why Your Height Does Not Define Your Attractiveness To a Woman
A man who is too short or too tall for a woman will cause her to become sympathetic towards him rather than uninterested or interested. She will not want to hurt his feelings, and she will spend some time trying to let him down in the easiest way possible.
The trick is to take advantage of this time and change her opinion.
Fortunately, women who are not attracted to your height can be attracted to many other things. Your voice, the way you carry yourself, your attitude, your confidence, and even other physical attributes like your eyes, lips, or hands.
So a man has this small window of opportunity to show off all of his attributes and cause her to look past the height issue she had and change her mind about her attraction towards him.
When it comes to attraction, there are many things that women take into consideration. One physical ‘fault’ will never be enough to turn a woman off. This is why you see the seemingly unattractive guy with the beautiful woman.
It doesn’t matter how tall he is or how big he is; it only matters that he has the confidence and attitude that she desires. Any man who possesses a high level of confidence and self-worth will be able to attract any woman, regardless of his height.
If you feel that you are too tall or too short for a woman, then you have to convince her quickly that you are much more than your height. If she takes note that you have a lot to offer her, then she will agree to a date.
If you continue to show her that you have a lot to offer her, then you will win her over, and your height will never be an issue.