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Being Bolder Will Get You Laid More

November 27, 2012 by Tam D Leave a Comment

Boldness, It wasn’t until I met a specific guy that I realized how being bolder can get you laid more. I don’t want to use his actual name so lets call him “Daniel”. At the time I met him, I was doing fine dating wise, I had enough experiences that I knew the line for how bold a person can be was farther than most guys thought. But I still believe certain actions were too much and would get you maced and not laid.

For example

  • Making out with a woman within 5 minutes of conversation – Possible
  • Making out with a woman within 30 seconds without saying a word – Impossible
  • Getting a woman to leave the club for a one night stand – Possible
  • Getting a woman to leave the club within 10 sentences and less than 5 minutes – Impossible
  • Getting a first date to have sex with you in the car – Possible
  • Getting a first date virgin to have sex with you in the bathroom of a coffee shop – Impossible

It was as if, wherever i thought the bar was, this guy shattered that bar, and showed me how to push even further. Daniel lived outside the city but loved to meet women in the city. He didn’t drive cause he had a minimum wage job and was bad at money management. He lived with his parents and they were hardcore no sex until marriage parents.  Despite all these reasons, he still loved sex with numerous women. He was the type of guy that would only sleep with a woman once and move on. He wasn’t interested in long courtships , 3 dates, dinner, movies, etc. He just wanted to get laid.

Because of all this, he was very bold with his intentions with women, he got laid…a lot. He was easily in the top 5 guys of the ones I met personally. So how did being bold get him laid so much?

Bold is associate with confidence.  The bolder you are, the more confident you seem. Being bolder even builds your confidence further. If you are bold enough to flirt with a woman on a train full of people, flirting with one in a bar, or during the day becomes nothing.

Being bold, now open more options for you. You are willing to approach women in more places and this gives you more chances of getting laid.

Unable to bring women to his house due to the distance and his parents. Daniel had to either sleep with them at their place, car, or some place in the city. So everywhere became a potential place to get laid. This made him more sexual seductive in places that normally a guy wouldn’t be.  In a way it was ironic, not having a house to bring women gave him more places for sex.

And finally, his level of boldness allowed him to quickly filter out women that were not as sexual interested as he was, allowing him to meet more women and increase his chances of finding the ones that was as sexual interested as he was.

Now some of you may not be as interested in getting laid as Daniel was, or even want to take it to some the extremes that he did.  But what you should take from this is that, Boldness makes you more confident. This will change you into the take charge and initiative guy that women find attractive. It will give you the nerve to ask your crush out and when the date is happening allowing you to go for the kiss instead of worrying if she likes you. You will have less regrets and spend less time worrying about “what ifs”.

In short, you will be happier.

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